This is a highly individual thing.  People want to roleplay many different types of things.  But what needs to be said here is the complaints that are often heard in chatrooms about lame rolplayers.  The first thing that makes a good scene is your imagination. The devil is in the detail. Most roleplayers enjoy the build up more than than pay off.  So roleplayers who want to start their scene at the sexual act are often ignored.  It's the situation that gets you to that point that makes the act more exciting.  But having said that, some individuals may respond to the type of roleplay that starts at sex, but the experience of most is that this is the minority.  You have to be able to negotiate with your roleplay partners as to what you all want from the experience.  Be creative, be imaginative, and be ready.  Yes, never ask someone for a roleplay if you don't have a scene.  That is bad karma! If you initiate the contact, it is expected that you have a scene to play.  Open your scene with the initial set up....not the whole plot outline....this gives your scene a chance to develop and therefore one prepared opening might lead to many different situations in the roleplaying.  Prepare a number of different scenes and don't just repeat and troll the same thing all the time.  This turns people off big time.  Roleplaying is like fishing, you dangle your bait (the opening set up) and hopefully you get a few bites.

 

 

What if no-one responds?  

 

Don't get mad, look at your material.  You might have the greatest scene set ups in the universe, but that doesn't mean that everyone will want to play them when you want to.  So if you PM somebody and they don't respond, don't think ill of them it just isn't what they are looking for at that moment in time.  Don't keep PMing that person and hassling them because they will iggy you.  Maybe another time that person may play it, so don't piss off potential partners.  Move on, keep fishing and if your scenes are good, you should get some action.  Read profiles, because that can give you a clue what people like.  Have a profile because people like to see the person (real or fake pic doesn't really matter) they are imagining the scene with.  If a person has written in their profile, "Don't PM me with HI, HEY, ASL etc.." then don't, PM them your scene.  Show some respect for the person you are attempting to attract to your scene.

 

 

1.Hi, hey, ASL, buzz....if they specify they don't want it.

 

2. Stupid openings like.......I knocked on your door......I rip your shirt off and say **** me ........you walk in and i am playing with your panties.....daddys home....Hi mom........and so on...these show no imagination and indicate a lame roleplayer.

 

3. If you look at a profile and the person indicates they don't like certain things then don't PM them a scene involving those things.  Shows a lack of respect.

 

4. Don't troll, you will never get anywhere....quality is better than quantity.

 

5. Don't act all nice, and if the potential partner turns you down, start hurling abuse at the person.  Makes you look like an idiot with a serious mental problem..iggy time.

 

 

 

Mostly things go wrong when you do the following:

 

1.  Be totally uncreative and boring.

 

2.  When one player doesn't actually really read the other's responses.  She says she has a red dress on...he replies I slide my hand down your jeans....wrong!!!

 

3.  When you don't let your partner be involved in the creative process....she says I back off a little nervous at your intensity...he replies (sorry I want you to be totally into it can you do it like that).  If you want total creative control then roleplay with yourself.  The art of roleplay is creating something with your partner/s, not just your idea.  Learn to incorporate others ideas into your story.

 

4. One or two word responses kill good roleplay dead. Be descriptive, ie describe what you are doing and why, what's going on in your head, your feelings, why this situation is so stimulationg for you.

 

5. Alot of roleplayers hate it when you use abbreviated words instead of the corrrect spelling eg u instead of you, ur instead of your and so on.  Get into the habit of using the right words.

 

6.  Learn to spell.  Especially if you PM a scene set up to someone and it is full of stupid spelling errors. It says to the potential partner you are going to be a totally lame roleplayer.  If you can't spell in the set up where you have spent time preparing....how will you go during the scene...poor spelling distracts your partner.

 

7.  Roleplaying is not cybersex.  cybersex is just pretending you're having sex while masturbating.  Roleplaying involves sex (but not always), but it is the set up and situation that is the stimulis and sex may just be the pay off. Remember the devil is in the detail.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is all for now. I will add some more later.  I got to go roleplay some.